Sunday, February 17, 2013
I think sonder is a sort of urban dictionary type of word... not a Merriam Webster's kind of word, you know what I mean?
But still I love it. I love the idea of it.
Because, in a way, even the people who only think of others still live in their own world. What I mean by that is that you can't truly know the thoughts of another. No matter how much time you spend with them, you will still never know how complex their life is. What it's like to be them.
We, as humankind, live so strangely surrounded by others and yet alone at the same time.
I don't doubt that our God can keep up with the lives of everyone, but I have no idea how He does it.
And people can try to be one thing. Everyone tries to keep some things about themselves hidden when talking to everyday people. Still, I think the coolest moments are when you see little glimpses of who someone really is on the inside. Sometimes it comes by spending a lot of time with someone, sometimes you just happen to witness little inner doubts/thoughts flash in their eyes.
And when you try putting yourself in another's position, you see that everyone tries. Everyone has insecurities. Things they're good at and things they're bad at.
I really hope that acceptance can be something that I am good at.
And think a little before you get mad at or start disliking someone from something they did.
Because I think people are sometimes more justified in their actions than you'd realize.
Sometimes I do/say things that would totally not make sense to a random passerby, but whoever I'm with understands perfectly.
For example, last week I had to wander around Walmart and take pictures of different packages for a commercial art class I'm in. And I probably looked a little weird taking pictures of gross looking Valentine's candy, but I had reason to do it, you know?
Am I making sense at all?
I think... people are just people. They deserve love and most definitely respect, but they shouldn't scare you.
I just love reading the description of sonder. It's crazy to think about. That there are people in the world that don't even know I exist, yet I'm living a deep, complex, stressful, happy, crazy life with dozens of layers to it.
"You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view . . . until you climb into his skin and walk around in it."
-Harper Lee (To Kill a Mockingbird)
People are so cool.
Creation is so cool.